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First school sporting event
Our 4 yo son Loki is now in Reception and yesterday he had his first school football tournament. Big event - notable for being a rare occasion where I didn't bring my semi-professional camera to take snaps. I always look a bit of a weirdo amongst the parents with their iphones next to me with my enormous telephoto lens like I'm trying to compensate for some biological inadequacy. But if I don't take the snaps, then the parents get disappointed that they don't have the cool cl

Trig50ish
23 hours ago
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Brave parenting
When your daughter shows distress about the state of her relationship, it is very tempting as a father to step in and take action. But the truth is, I'm too fat, have weak wrists, and basically prefer sitting in the living room to any form of activity, so operate under a quite tight constraints when it comes to doing anything to help. Nevertheless, there are things you can do. Impactful things...

Trig50ish
4 days ago
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Women's Rugby World Cup - what's the point?
7 weeks down and now there's nothing to watch on Saturday afternoons anymore.

Trig50ish
Sep 29
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No theme at all
Been doing a few obscure cartoons lately that basically capture a random thought drifting through my head, usually on the way to the tube...

Trig50ish
Jun 9
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Christmas - a time for reflection
Whether you call it Christmas, the winter break, or happy holidays, the time off from work presents the opportunity to have a think about...

Trig50ish
Dec 21, 2023
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Birthday parties - more competitive than the Olympics
If there's one glimmer of hope to pull the economy out of the cost of living crisis, it's children's birthday parties. The amount of...

Trig50ish
Dec 17, 2023
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Taking toddlers to adult things . . .
I've just realised that sounds way worse that I meant it to. I don't mean 'adult things' like stripshows or brothels and such like....

Trig50ish
Oct 3, 2023
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Old bull young bull
That's the expression we used in our family whenever I'd get into a disagreement with my dad. I guess it means that there's only room for...

Trig50ish
Sep 30, 2023
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Lots of daily life is an endurance test
Particularly if you have kids. I look at Loki with his beautiful toddler innocence and enthusiasm for everything and wonder to myself...

Trig50ish
Aug 16, 2023
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Kids make you smarter, by accident.
It was the same with Loki's older brother Finn when he was a late toddler in the early noughties. Always questioning stuff and wanting to...

Trig50ish
Aug 13, 2023
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Beware friendly neighbours . . .
Our neighbours suddenly started being nice to us. Inviting us over, giving us gifts, and generally being very communicative. Despite the...

Trig50ish
Jul 28, 2023
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Toddlers can be desperately boring
No amount of paternal love generated by those beautiful 2 and half year old innocent blue eyes staring longingly into mine can hide the...

Trig50ish
Jul 26, 2023
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Obscure side effects of co-morbidities
When you've got a lot wrong with you, it seems to be an invitation for a lot of other things to hop along for the ride. Some of them are...

Trig50ish
Jul 16, 2023
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Regretting your bucket list
I sit firmly on the side of those who argue that people should have the right to choose the time of their own death. I guess where I...

Trig50ish
Jul 13, 2023
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Always a moment for tea time anthems
It's been an amusing day for me today triggered by when people ask me 'how are you?' I can genuinely respond, 'Oh I'm fine, and pissing...

Trig50ish
Jul 6, 2023
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Australia is so much safer than the UK
In the 20 years I lived in Australia as a lad, surrounded by deadly snakes and spiders, at no stage did I experience such horror as...

Trig50ish
Jul 3, 2023
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First school photograph
Something about human evolution makes parents see their own children as utterly captivating, and beautiful to boot. But not every child...

Trig50ish
Jun 25, 2023
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A glimpse of adult conversation while the toddler sleeps...
Back before Loki was born, Iu and I used to talk to each other in the evening. But after Loki was born, the evenings became a competition...

Trig50ish
Jun 19, 2023
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Surviving my daughter's GCSEs
When it comes to exams, you're so relieved when the run of GCSEs, A-Levels, University and other professional qualifications finally is...

Trig50ish
Jun 17, 2023
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Meeting eldest son's girlfriend
This weekend, 52 year old dad met his 18 year old son's girlfriend for the first time - the pair both came to stay with us for a couple...

Trig50ish
Jun 12, 2023
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